Lecture #3 - Using a Behavior Management Plan
by
Billy & Donna Snowden
Seymour 1st Church – Children’s Ministries Department
You may think using a behavior management plan is too much to handle while teaching a lesson, but after the students get used to the rules, consequences, and rewards, they will be better behaved than you ever thought possible. Instead of constantly dealing with behavior problems, you will be able to focus on teaching. Remember the first 2 or 3 weeks of using the plan will be hard and you will be tested, but the benefits are well worth the hard work.
1.) Come up with some rules.
You don’t need 500 rules. Actually somewhere between three and five simple, easily remembered rules are best. You can create the rules yourself, or you can let your students help you come up with some rules. You could even ask your students why we need laws and rules. The answer would be to protect us all.
Older children are often capable of coming up with sensible rules. Also, older children are more likely to follow rules that they helped create. You can let students suggest rules. You write them down and put similar rules together. An example would be combining the rules of no yelling in class and don’t make rude noises into one rule---Be respectful of others. Remember if you come up with rules that cover a lot of ground, you must give some examples of what the rule is talking about. Some children are not sure what being respectful means. After students suggest rules, add on the rules you know are important if they have not been mentioned.
If you are working with younger children, you will need very direct rules. Here are a few good examples. 1.) Keep your hands and feet to yourself. 2.) Do not torment others or use bad words. 3.) No running. Children need to know exactly what you expect from them to behave well. Make sure you let the students know that sometimes they will not have to follow every rule. If you are playing an outdoor running game, they will have to run. Just let them know the rules apply unless you tell them otherwise.
Be sure to post the rules in place where they can be easily viewed by all students.
2.) Decide on some consequences.
Come up with what will happen when a student breaks one of the rules. They say the punishment should fit the crime, but we are not really talking about punishment when we say consequences. Consequences happen because of our choices. If an adult decides to not go to work for a week without telling the boss, the consequence will probably be unemployment. Help your students see that they have the choice to behave or misbehave.
Come up with a chart or another way to keep track of each student’s behavior. Using color levels is a good way to help students understand how they are behaving. Think of it kind of like a traffic light. Start all students on a green level. This means go. If students break a rule, they move to the yellow level, which means caution or warning. If students break a rule while on yellow, they move to the red level, which means stop or last chance. If students on a red level break a rule, they must face a consequence. This may be a timeout or being escorted to the sanctuary to sit with a parent or adult.
If students move down a level by breaking a rule, but then their behavior improves and they are paying attention, they can move back up a color. Some teachers like to use the blue level as the highest level that students can reach by obeying rules and participating.
You can use a color chart the students can see, or you can use stickers found in the office supply department of Wal-Mart. You take the color sticker they are on and give them the new color level sticker. If you have a small class, you may be able to use the color system verbally. Just tell everyone they are starting on a green, and then when they break a rule, point to them and say, “You broke such and such rule. You are now on a yellow.” Be calm when switching levels and let them know it is their choice that resulted in the level change. Let them know they can move back up if they are following the rules.
Remember there are some behaviors that cannot be tolerated because they endanger other students. Be sure students know that you will not allow these behaviors, and students who do these things will immediately be escorted out of the room. Any fighting or hurting someone on purpose should be treated like this. Always try to be in your classroom on time to avoid accidents or fighting happening when you are not there to see or stop it.
3.) Rewards
Just as you need consequences for breaking rules, you need rewards for obeying rules. Rewards do not need to be expensive to be effective. You can use small inexpensive candy or toys for rewards. You can get large quantities of inexpensive candy during sales right after Halloween and Easter. Having students bring in old toys they no longer want is also a good way to fill up the prize chest. This method takes some of the financial strain off of you, allows your students to give to ministry, and provides students with toys that are fun and new to them.
Decide ahead of time how you will give out rewards. Will every student who is following rules or on a certain color level receive a prize or will you do a drawing for slightly bigger prizes? An easy way to do a drawing is to write numbers on plastic chips or pieces of paper. Give each student a number at the end of class and then draw out one or two of them to receive prizes. Remind students if they didn’t win this week, they might win next week. Drawings are normally better for older kids because younger ones tend to cry if they don’t get a prize.
Remember, you will have to stick to your guns about rewards or they will become meaningless. If a student is not on the color level they need to be on to receive a prize, they may become upset. Don’t give in and give them a prize anyway. Tell the student that you care for him or her, but it would not be fair to give them a prize that others worked hard to earn. Let the student know you are looking forward to next week when he or she will get another chance to earn a prize by behaving. This will be very hard, but fair. Students should be able to easily earn a prize, because even if they misbehave they can earn back up to a green or blue level. Only a child that has not even tried to follow the rules will be without a prize. By the way, this behavior plan has been used successfully with children with ADHD, ADD, and emotional disabilities.
Remember expect good behavior from your students, and you will almost always get it. You may even have parents asking you for some tips.
*Here is an example chart that you can print out and use. If you would like it to be reusable, just laminate the page and use a permanent marker to write students’ names. Use a dry erase marker to make X’s in the column of the color they are on, or use the permanent marker and wipe the marks off each week with rubbing alcohol.
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Now it is time for you to add to this discussion.
FOR Teachers:
1st- Debrief – How did Sunday go?
2nd---Come up with at least 3 rules that you think would work for your class. Tell us the age group you would use these rules for.
3rd—Respond to the thought of at least one person this week.
FOR -Superintendents / Leadership :
This lecture is for you to read and have the information to help encourage your teachers. Stay with us through this month and you will be a more valuable leader!
Let’s see if we can do this on the Naz Class blog.
Pastor Daugherty
573-3734 kentondaugherty@yahoo.com
or Contact the authors of this lecture
Billy and Donna Snowden
Billysnowden3@cs.com